Phew, busy weekend. I was going to get back to you on this one, but I actually think stuck nailed it a few posts back. Now is a great time to start thinking about some boundaries, especially with regards to her blaming you.
Not sure how far you are through your current book, but I think this is the perfect time to pick up "Hold on to Your NUTS". It covers boundaries in a concise and easy to understand manner, and it will get you thinking about what you are willing and not willing to tolerate.
The good thing about boundaries is that as you set them and internalize them, you become more decisive, strong, and in-control without being controlling.
Last edited by spellfire; 03/16/0904:43 PM.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
