I always went with my gut feelings. It was always dead on in my case.
I too had the mood swings. I think in my case it was because I was wrestling with myself whether to hang in there or not. It is the hardest part of the MLC. It seems like it takes forever. Piecing is so hard and I didn't know if I could make it or not. Once my H got through the loss of the ow things started improving.
