Glad to see things are moving in such a positive direction for you, it really sounds like your DBing efforts are working well. I wish I could say that I'm not in the negative, but that would be a lie. Or maybe acting as-if. This weekend was very difficult for me, and I feel more and more like I'm slipping into a void from which there is no return.
You did mention a few things that I have to keep in mind.
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this was going to be a long slow process.
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give her a chance to heal.
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I have no say except I'm available for her to come back.
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She's already gone, so there isn't much for me to worry about. Can't muck things up if they're already mucked. I concentrate on providing an environment she can heal in. Feel safe. Outside of that, there has not been much I can do except feel sad. I do.
Keep up the great work, your efforts and determination are an inspiration!
