BUT, I've decided I'm not doing ANYTHING remotely close to initiating anything physically (even a fingernail caress! LOL) until I've lost 15 pounds. I had to put on some warmer weather clothing this weekend. WTH happened? It's easy to hide a "little' extra under denim and sweaters.
So, that's my answer.
And, with that loss of weight, I feel will come confidence.
H is still making overtures to spend some time together, still being pleasant, but still has a wall up.
The time I need to lose the weight, will help in this.
I may end up forcing the issue by then. I'm just about done with this type of M. Don't worry... it'll take a little while. No wild decisions coming from this end. But, there's a point where this is just NOT happening anymore. Figure it out, dude.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
