Maybe it sounds different coming from someone else. I really don't want the kids to lose their Dad even if he is trying to be the "good times" guy. He has enough problems. I don't want to get in the middle of these things. I so want him out of my life, I feel like a kid having a temper tantrum.
G I hope you are able to keep building those relationships back up. Your daughter is older now maybe time for a heart to heart and explain that you didn't "see" what this all may have done to her.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
