I think you are doing great. And I know, I hear those little itty bitty comments too that if someone else were listening they would think we were crazy to hear it that way. With that, I think she and my H says things like that because they are trying to think of life without us. But it doesn't mean they are going to be able to follow through. I'm reading "I Do, Again." If you read, go out and get it. Very inspirational. You are doing amazing things Lost. Amazing.