Thanks SO2, you said it much more succintly and to the point. Of course I understand doing the happy dance when things go badly for S/OM/W. Heck, I was grinning for a day when I found out OW got laid off by their employer. Karma!

It just feels you are still doing a lot of things in order to have some impact on what W is doing/thinking/feeling. Keep the goal in mind.

I still think you're doing a great job and admire your strength and commitment. Perhaps Amy and I will have to get you a pair of purple shoes! \:\)

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