His being the major breadwinner only counts against me--can't get assistance because of that. It was my medical bill for my shoulder surgery.
As far as the glasses go--he's got the insurance on her. The first several hundred dollars of medical expenses are the custodial parent's responsibility, regardless of who makes more money (and his salary is twice mine--thanks to me supporting him through grad school and residency).
His situation only seems to improve, mine only seems to go backwards. At least it's getting warmer; I only hope I can save up enough money to get the gas reconnected by next fall when it gets cold again.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
