She blew up at that saying she felt like I was disrespecting her and not listening by trying to drag this thing out. She said she was going to stop being nice and stop going to counseling as she felt I was trying to take advantage of her.
Oh please...it's not like she is a grown woman, right? Stop being nice? She is walking away, yeah that's super nice of her.
We may want to think of a boundary for this kind of talk, especially if she is saying she is no longer going to be nice.
I'm not saying get pissed and let her take your wall down with this talk, but I also am not sure you should tolerate this kind of talk either.
Don't act on it right now, but let's think about a good way to handle this.
Spellfire,
Any more thoughts on this one?
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
