Hi MB. I wonder if it would be best to go slower than that? I'm sure you're trying to go the whole distance, but would it be better to just try and build what you have already built to?
What I'm thinking is that going to the flirting and shoulder rub might be the extent you should go for now. In fact, ending it if H tries to go further might be a good idea, although you'd have to make that call when you are faced with it.
What do you think?
AJ
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