I emailed H today and asked him about the child support/alimony. He emailed back he's been paying the 1st and 15th (well really the 3rd and the 16th or 17th but I guess he's saying his intention is to pay the 1st and 15th. I already don't have enough money to pay all the bills and he has to delay the payments a couple days. I'm thinking about asking the L to speed up the D to get this over with. Would that be tactically unwise though--b/c he's the one with OW and all? I'm just so ready to have this over with!
