I think he's playing tit-for-tat b/c you were only marginally available when he wanted to come play with your pussies.
However, if he's sincere about not wanting to lose you, and everything else he said to you in that letter, than he's IN NO POSITION to play tit-for-tat.
HE needs to be wooing YOU at this point.
- Puppy, who just slid two naughty words past the censors, lol.