Oh Hoosier, I am so sorry. I do know how you feel, kind of like a mouse on a wheel, running for all your worth and getting nowhere.
Whose name is on these bills or are they joint? I cannot for the life of me see how he can not be responsible for some if not all of these items.
Surely his daughters glasses!!!!
I feel so mad at him I might have to resort to getting my cauldron out and a few spells!
I really really hope you have got financial advice from a legal standpoint.