You're right, I cannot control her. I've just had a call from her to tell me she had spoken to the housing benefit people who will pay part of the new mortgage she needs to 'go it alone'. She has been asked for a form that states last years total earnings. As she does not have an official job she cannot provide this form, which means she will have trouble getting a mortgage. she was nearly in tears wondering what to do - I did not think for one minute she had thought this through properly (another WAW trait - lack of normal thinking). I should laugh but I think about the children.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
