I hope to hear some advice soon before my day begins, please help!
Upgrade,
Still Waters (and I, for that matter) DID help you, over the weekend. We both implored you not to confront your wife yet, until you'd had more time to process everything and so we could help you some more.
Why did you?
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I want to text message her good friend and coworker and let her know what’s going on. I want to tell my IL’s what’s going on. At the end of the day, I still want to save my marriage. I just don’t know what to do at this point. I’m sure my actions are not inline with DB’ng principles, but I haven’t read anything about how to handle this.
What are you talking about??? You were practically given a PLAYBOOK to follow by SW, and I added "What SW said -- exactly."
Is there a reason you ignored all the advice you were given?