Standing on the Edge

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One thing I know about my W, in our R she did not pursue. Prior to us dating, she did pursue. So, I have concluded that if anyone is going to pursue reconcilliation it will need to be me.

Whenever we had arguements, I had to humble myself first and apologise before she could be ok.

Of course, I don't want to keep feeding her passivity in regards to us, but I am playing it by ear because I think too much distancing simply confirms the message that she already believes, ie: that I don't or can't love her the way she needs to be loved.

I definantly will not be checking up on her when she is by herself though. My biggest concern is in regards to my Daughter's health and safety. I can give my W the space to be a free agent if that is what she wants.