In desperate need of advice, separation looming!

[Tawnya]

I am just going to repeat what Portland said only because I know how long it took me to REALLY get it..but trying to find a way to detach is SOOOOO key and vital to YOUR well being I can't even begin to tell you..because then and ONLY then will you be able to be completely happy no matter what

Am I saying that once you detach you never think about anything? NO..I still have moments, all of my friends on here still have moments, but they are much quicker and much further in between!

And I wish I could give you the "magic key" for how to detach, unfortunately there isn't one and it seems different for everyone!

Hang in there, read as much as you can on these boards, and listen to these very wise people!!

Tawnya