I agree with Mel on this. From your description of the evening, I wouldn't give you an F in DBing. It sounded like you were unemotional, cordial, and detached. I would say you get high marks for that! She obviously wants pity, and you clearly didn't go down that road, so more high marks for you.
Keep it up man. We are all rooting for you and your D.
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09