Oh, I fully expect what Pollyanna describes to happen.
So, I wanted to journal before I forgot:
I was lying talking to D8 - and she seemed to be struggling with something.
She finally said, "I know something bad OM said to Mommy." I asked her what it was, and she said Mommy made her "promise to God" not to tell me. So, I kind of bugged her for a little bit, and she said she didn't want to tell me until she found out if it was OK with Mommy, so I felt bad and told her not to tell me. I told her I didn't want her to feel like she had lied to W, but I didn't want her to think that she had to keep secrets from me.
Again, I feel great because W told her, "What happens in the apartment, stays in the apartment." Seriously, she completely stole the Vegas line.
Anyhoo, I was starting to leave, and D8 said, "Well, all I can tell you is that OM told Mommy she needed to work on something." Then she said that "Mommy was crying".
So, I didn't push. I just told her again that I didn't care what she told Mommy, and I loved her, and she can trust me, etc.
But, holy cow! OM and W "date" for 3 months, and now he's criticizing her?
This, my friends, is a good day! I'm sorry if I'm gloating, or being vindictive, but hee hee!