I look forward to the day pollyanna. I can't wait in fact, just hope that it's not too long. I do try not to say much at all when H makes his little comments about OW because in the back of my mind I question what were you saying about me to OW, you know what I mean. But nonetheless, I clearly see OW for what she is, and not b/c she's with my H, but sb/c he's very manipulative and liar and I have caught her in so many. H knows it too but he makes excuses for her. Good luck to them with their little R that is based on nothing of integrity or substance. I know it sounds bad but I can't wait for it all to blow up in their faces. \:\)