I do enjoy OW and H fighting myself. I just know they must be b/c OW in my case comes off as very argumentative and ghetto to me and has no control of her emotions. H sure doesn't seem that happy now. One day he called her "that one" and I loved it secretly. Funny thing is that my H never really speaks so well of OW. He knows that she is not the most polished person but he goes along and makes excuses for her behavior and says "she's a nice person though." I guess I'll have to see how long that "nice person" belief last before the fog wears off.