Although, on the flip side, not many people have the incredible life lessons I believe that DBing, and the support of the people on this forum bring.
I really do give alot of credit to this forum, the DBing books, and many people on here for some significant changes in my life the last couple of months - I may never get W back, but I absolutely have become, and am continuing to become a better person.
I just was talking to someone about dating after divorce, and I said I wasn't interested in dating - because in my age bracket, it would most likely be a divorcee, and I don't think I'd feel comfortable saying, "Hi, nice to meet you, how about a date? Oh, and by the way have you been to http://www.divorcebusting.com?".