I would still rather have him than all of the money. He means way more to me than that, anyway. But, I will not be foolish if it comes down to that.
My thoughts exactly SMW. I know it sounds like I've had enough, and I have - of his foolishness and his A - but I don't hate him, just hate what he's doing. And there comes a time, as many others are finding out, that your financial future must be protected.
As far as an outfit - I've decided on sleek black pants (or a skirt) and a white blouse. H is used to seeing me in sweats or jeans. What about these choices? 1. an orangy/red cardigan sweater - red for power and it's H's favorite color 2. a blue cardigan sweater - for cool and calm or 3. a black jacket - for all business And I will wear black heels, not that H will notice, but I usually wear sneakers or Dansko Professionals.
Smartcookie - you asked for a nickname. I posted on your thread, but what about Tighta$$.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10