Wow, thanks everyone.

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I would still rather have him than all of the money. He means way more to me than that, anyway. But, I will not be foolish if it comes down to that.

My thoughts exactly SMW. I know it sounds like I've had enough, and I have - of his foolishness and his A - but I don't hate him, just hate what he's doing. And there comes a time, as many others are finding out, that your financial future must be protected.

As far as an outfit - I've decided on sleek black pants (or a skirt) and a white blouse. H is used to seeing me in sweats or jeans. What about these choices?
1. an orangy/red cardigan sweater - red for power and it's H's favorite color
2. a blue cardigan sweater - for cool and calm
or
3. a black jacket - for all business
And I will wear black heels, not that H will notice, but I usually wear sneakers or Dansko Professionals.

Smartcookie - you asked for a nickname. I posted on your thread, but what about Tighta$$.


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10