Divorce has this ripple effect that touches many many people.
In my line of work I am in constant contact with people in our situation. I have talked to 100s of separated , divorced people and the only people who seemed to of felt any sorrow or remorse was those who had done the leaving. There sadness was not about the LBS but the kids and the realisation that all there subsequent relationships offered them no more than what they had left.
Plenty of problems outside of the Marriage as well as in their new relationships. Whereas those who had been left seemed to of sorted through the loss and the grief and forged ahead with better choices .
