Ack, so he just emailed me "she must have talked to you" like I'm lying or something!!! Wouldn't you think he would know me well enough to know I'm not like that. I emailed back: The week of the hearing back in December it was. That was about 3 months ago. I don't think divorce attorneys are people you should trust completely what they say (in fact you told me that a couple months ago too). Not on purpose maybe but like the game of telephone where one person says something (3 months ago) and it gets filtered through 2 more people and a couple months before you get the message. And I'm thinking our attorneys maybe don't like each other that much, so they don't try to phrase things politely from what I've seen also. I know I shouldn't email anymore & probably shouldn't have responded, but I need to cool off a bit!!!! Karen