WAW - Very confused and devestated - pt 5

[confusedinpa]

She was mad when I got home. She had dinner waiting for me. She and the kids already ate

She seemed hurt that I was gone so long and did not call. I most asked why did she care but I didn't. The boys were excited that I was back

I told her that after the gym I needed some time to think. She said it was wrong for me to be gone almost 6 hours without calling. I wanted to say like whe she was out for her Bday but I didn't

I just acknowledged and validated

I played with the boys for a bit. She complained about her feet as she had cleaned the floors and did 6 loads of laundry and made dinner when I was gone. I gave her a foot massage and a kiss on the check. I the recognized how everything was taken care of so well

She seems calm now. Not sure what that means but I had a fun day