Hey Kassie, nice to see you. I appreciate the support.

It's been an interesting weekend. He called me on Friday asking if I wanted to pay my own life insurance. He was in the process of cancelling his. I told him that is in violation of the complaint for divorce that he was served with 14 days ago. He still hasn't unblocked our savings account, & my checking went into insufficient funds on Friday. It's so fun trying to negotiate with someone I couldn't negotiate with even when we were planning on staying married.

It's supposed to be my weekend with the kids, & H asked me if I minded if he invited the boys to go to a movie. Course, he asked me AFTER he invited them. I told him I didn't mind this time, but from now on that he should invite them to do things on his weekend. Last weekend, he was gone most of Saturday.

Last night I woke up with a fever. I probably have what D14 had this past week. Lucky me.

Good thing I have kids to take care of me. S18 made me breakfast and D14 made me lunch. LOL


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.