Hi Vicky,

We haven't chatted before but just came across your question.

My opinion, for what it's worth, is that if you have asked him and he hasn't done it, then have it done yourself with cable guy or whoever. Ask around for a handyman in the neighborhood that might be able to do both jobs for you.

I think that if your H has not done it already, it usually means he doesn't want to do it but because maybe he is passive agressive, he won't come right out and say so. Also, if you ask him again, it will come across as 'nagging' again.

So show him that you don't need him for everything. That you are a strong, independent woman who can get things done. The more you show that you don't 'need' him, the more it will get his attention now, I think. But this is only one woman's opinion. Good luck!


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'