H just sent me 2 emails. One about how he doesn't know how keeping the house and avoiding the foreclosure will affect his filing for bankruptcy. And I asked him to keep the kids most of Saturday until I could pick them up after work 7:30 to 9, he emails back it depends on Sundays (if he has them or not for church). His emails always make me feel like . My reply was going to be this: I was hoping you could keep the kids most of Saturday whether or not you get Sunday--I have 2 part time jobs now that will be on Saturdays. At least you could give them dinner or early dinner hopefully....I'm not keeping track of hours or whatever, just want the kids to be doing ok. If you feel like Sundays is too much also, maybe you could switch to one Sunday a week or whatever you prefer. I hope we can work this out. How does that sound? I'm always trying to for middle ground, polite but assertive, no more doormat. Can you tell I feel like when I think of him????
It sounds like he is also not going to fax to the mortgage company that they can discuss with me (authorization to do that). B/c my L said she wouldn't have me sign on to the B unless he made the monthly car payment. Well, why should I sign on for that for no reason? If he hadn't found OW, run up our credit cards, go on 4 or 5 vacations, and the double bills the past year, we wouldn't have had to file B. Our combined income this year will be almost $100,000. Karen
. My reply was going to be this: I was hoping you could keep the kids most of Saturday whether or not you get Sunday--I have 2 part time jobs now that will be on Saturdays. At least you could give them dinner or early dinner hopefully....I'm not keeping track of hours or whatever, just want the kids to be doing ok. If you feel like Sundays is too much also, maybe you could switch to one Sunday a week or whatever you prefer. I hope we can work this out. How does that sound? I'm always trying to for middle ground, polite but assertive, no more doormat. Can you tell I feel like 
Karen