That is wierd about hte chimney.. and also.. how does he feel about the ex being there to sweep it, cos sweeping chimneys is a pretty manly pursuit! Anyway, not for you to worry about hey. Thats really sweet letting your son 'pull' the tree over, you're such a great, fun Dad! You remind me of my Dad, he was always keeping us occupied with fun activities.
Its so great to hear you and your W get on and she can turn to you for help with chimneys/IT stuff etc! Shows a real repsect and mutual friendship and love there I thikn, despite the sad sitch you find yourselves in. If only she would go for MC with you! Did you ever suggest that? Did you try before? Seems she still cares and you have more to work on and build on than most couples I am sure. Still, like me and my ex, you cant make them open up and talk hey.
Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
