Well yesterday I told my wife that it was unacceptable for her to kick my out and that I will not walk out on my sons.
After our long talk she told me that there is no way she can become the person she is becoming and wants to become wil she is in a realtionship with me.
She repeated that she sees changes in me that she had wanted to see all along. Though these changes have occured she is where she is. She said it took a long time for her to get where she is and that it didn't happen over night. Like my changes!
She said the pain she suffered due to my emotional abuse made her lose herself. She went on to say that a year ago she had to mke the decision to take care of herself. That change was about building her self confidence and re-energoze her core self.
She says that she has always thought about what I might be thinking of what she would be doing, or how I would react. Instead of just doing what she wants without thinking about what I want. So now she wants to be able to make decisions solely on makes her happy and whole. She says there is no way for her to do it while in a relationship with me.
