I am still reading along and am here to offer support. I understand that this must be extremely difficult for you especially when you have your D to think about as well.
As always, thanks so much for your support, MSM. It is appreciated more than you know.
I don't really know what to do at this point.
I did take a big step and offer to go with W to a counselling session where the purpose would be for her to express her anger at me. I promised not to justify myself, try to get her to see my pov, argue, etc. I would just hear her.
She hasn't replied to my offer yet, but I think that no matter what it will help her clear the air and lay the groundwork for her to move on or move back. Most of all, I don't want her life to be mired with anger and unhappiness and if she can rid herself of that and then finds happiness with someone else, I would be happy for her.
Me 47, W 32,D 6, Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7 Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09