Today I am going through digital photos to put together a portfolio of my venetian plaster work for a customer and there are a lot of W & D photos.....I am wishing I could go back and fix everything and missing our life. I am not doing this to intentionally wallow, but they are all mixed in.
I am not ready to date, not until and if we actually divorce. Just trying to get out of the house when I have some free time.
I am looking at some 'Meet-up' groups nearby. Insofar as dating, I think if I just go out with the intention of just socializing, there will be no pressure and I can relax and be myself.
Glad you had a lot of time with your daughter. I know how special mine is to me.
W's cousin took W out to lunch to basically address what he sees as a lackadasical involvement with our D. I was afraid he would screw things up and say something that would implicate me, but it seems like that did not happen.
W took D to her brother's house yesterday. I texted to check if they arrived ok. I took a risk and said 'luv u'. She did not text 'luv u' back, but her tone was congenial.
I only take those risks when I see clear signs that she seems open. But I never try to push it too far.
She isn't seeing anyone yet.
BTW, how long have you and your W been seperated ?
Me 47, W 32,D 6, Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7 Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09
