Separation has really helped me. I no longer concern myself with her activities and that allows me the time to live my life and concentrate on the kids. My W and I actually get along much better now. She seems to be getting healthier mentally and emotionally. She's carrying her own weight and asks me for nothing.
All that being said, she still screwed up the M with A's and right now has no intention of coming home. I'm not sure that I want her anymore. I have had the opportunity to really examine our M and see how unhealthy it was.
This time apart has been good for us as individuals. She's not the same person she was in the M; but she's still not someone I would date either. Now if she could just be a better mother.
