"Going Dark" - 101

[pauld2100]

Is anyone seeing these? I have posted a few things. If a Mod. could reply it make my day! I noticed the day I saw her she was frustrated and asking me for help with the house but asked why I had to live there to do so! I had not even given the impression that I did wanted to move back in when asked this. Now I think this important! I responded with I can't in two places at once and well not angry but said I don't care. All the while I was happy as can be, I did not ask about her dating. this seemed to set the tone for that day she asked me to stay for dinner and watch a movie. Now I did see her a couple brief times after this day and she was not as nice. so I backed off again, I was not there emotionally in the R for a while, and I did pursue for a while after she asked me to leave. so it would seem I have both problems to over come, not being there and being there to much right after.... I have read some things she wrote and one thing caught me she said " I am not her truth and never will be" yet we had this nice day after she wrote this. Anyway she told me she is over wehlmed and I know she is. she has not contacted me since that day. But the times I have contacted her she seems more reponsive. Please any suggestions or thoughts!