It is clique to say it, but time really does help heal those wounds of loneliness and loss. You guys aren't alone in all of this, we are all going through scarily similar things. Not having my W in the house (or even on the same continent) has really helped me detach. Doing things with outside the house or with the kids really helps, too, since the house is a constant reminder of what you had together.
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09