Originally Posted By: spellfire
No, she is not doing anything except she wore sexy lingerie for me two nights, which I did appreciate.

Guess I'll give it some time, thanks for responding LG.


Yes, sexy lingerie is effort. You sitch sounds so much like mine. I've worked on me to the point where I'm just to the point, "I can do better or what am I trying so hard for." Count your blessings. My LD wife has increased frequency but decreased intimacy. She has reverted to "ewwww, gross" over everything sexual. (She wasn't always like that.) Lingerie is a positive sign.

SF, done so many 180s that I'm a little dizzy


Me 42
Her 38
D 8
S 10
S 14

Married 18 years, together 20