Acting "As if" is associated with this mirroring thing...it sounds as if you've hit on something here...
essentially - as I think about it in DB terms mirroring is validation - the trick is to hit on a positive slant, it only needs to be 51% versus 49% - you can start from such low odds! what I was worried about for you was that you had seemed to did below that 50%...That would make the challenge all the much harder!
But it seems that you never reached that low...that you have dug deep and right now other things might be possible...the As if attitude has potential? The trick now is to make H show or verbalise that advance himself?
H must feel better in himself for the weekend...
Have you got your running shoes sorted???
If you need advice on running shoes try Lodo on this board!
Simon x
Ps - Am steeling myself for another trip to the bottom of the garden now to fell another conifer...just need to figure out how to miss the telegraph wire ....
