As much as I don't want to, I hope that me moving out jolts her into reality. I know it might take time, but at this point I have to for my own sanity.
Do it for yourself and your own sanity, but don't do it if it's to try and accomplish a sudden awakening or jolt into reality. If she has checked out and is having an A, you moving out is only going to make it easier for her to carry on with the A without you interfering.
If you want to fight for your M, stay and fight the good fight (DB style). Cut and run is not the way to win her back.
