any advice???

A week or so ago, I heard that a little house across from H's was for sale. It is dirt cheap and the payments would be at least 1/2 of H's rent. I told him about it. Thought it might be worth checking in to. H blew me off like he wasn't interested. The other day BIL told me H had told him about it. He acted as thought he was interested and said that if he decided to leave, he would just give it to D17. ?!?!

Hasn't said one word to me about it.

Just now my mom called (she is friends with the lady selling it). She said H looked at the house yesterday. Even looked at her utility bills. ?!?! He hasn't said a word to me...

Do I ask him about this? Although I am the one that suggested it, I still have reservations about it. This would be a joint deal, does he realize that? We are still M. I'm kind of ticked and really wondering how to handle it.


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!