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He told me many many times to move on with my life and that I should date other people.


My H has told me this a few times too. OUCH

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He told me that one day I would find a new Man to love me....

He told me just about a month or so ago that there has to be some farmer out there that can give me the life I want.

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The funny thing was that during his crisis it seemed like I always needed to be available for him if he called, but if I needed to call him, his phone was always off.

This too makes me continue to stand for my H and my M. Gives me hope. If I do not answer his calls he gets very angry. And I might not answer 1 in 30 calls, then later he'll say "you never answer my calls!" Then like you not answer mine frequently. Its pathetic really.


M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!