I am very afraid of this and think a permanent emotional MLC could apply to my M. I think my husband wrestles with leaving us to make his initial EA decisions right in the first place. He is so without emotional and communication tools that at this point, I can't imagine him unwinding these problems. I can see him going forward, living on the emotional fringe of life and being a victim to avoid responsibility. I can't think of many times that he has apologized. It has been more like 'I'm sorry you are hurt."
Hi BPretty. Just wanted to say that you are an amazing communicator and writer. The above paragragh is exactly what happened with my xH. Exactly. But don't let my signature scare you (the fact that I am divorced), because you are stronger than I was when in your shoes. You have found this place and your own inner strength as a woman in plenty of time. You are approaching this with more patience and less desparation than I did.
Staying the course is super hard, but you are doing a fantastic job. Its great that you see you aren't ready for any LRT, I love that you can admit it, and not do anything rash just to get a reaction out of your husband.
