BNd....I have a question for you....Did your H ever tell you that you need to move on, that he wanted you to start dating, that he would walk up to the guy and shake his hand? I was floored when my H said this yesterday...
H says he has found the life he wanted, he more sensitive now, and actually talks his feelings out....I've never felt more like it is truly over than I did yesterday....I'm so down today....
YES!!!!
He told me many many times to move on with my life and that I should date other people.
He told me that one day I would find a new Man to love me....
The funny thing was that during his crisis it seemed like I always needed to be available for him if he called, but if I needed to call him, his phone was always off.
When he came home he did tell me that had I dated someone else and it had become serious he would have been devastated to have lost me because of his own stupidity.
((((((hugs))))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
