I'm sorry I have not been in touch with you lately. I've have so much of my own "stuff" to deal with that I've neglected you. I just read your last post. I am so sorry this isn't working for you. I can't really help you save your marriage, but there is still hope. There is ALWAYS hope. There has to be, otherwise we (you and I and SLH and Laurie) wouldn't still be on this thread. Don't you believe that? It's true. Somebody in the DB warehouse has to believe that something is working here right?
Anyway, I do have stuff to share with you about me and maybe it'll help.