It hurts like heck to separate but eventually it brings some sort of peace because now (1 year anniversary tomorrow) am not tempted to snoop. Not tempted to think about their romantic times, whether they are together, or taking trips or whatever. Just being involved in my new life which is very fulfilling is much better. I will not live to suffer, which I think might be happening because curiousity is a HUGE hurdle to overcome. If you are tempted to look for signs of deception, you might find them and then what? For me, I just might as well accept my H is with OW, no need to spend hours thinking about it and catching them. Better to have life of my own, much more peaceful. Not healthy to dwell on their unhealthy, unholy lifestyle.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
