This all seems to be part of the script. The WAS rewrited history (our R was never good and I never should have said yes to M in the first place) and tries to push the LBS away or into another R to lesson their own guilt.

I also got both of these. "We have never really loved each other" (????)"
, "If we hadn't started having kids I would have left 7 years ago" and "why are you hanging on? -- why don't you just go find someone else?"

It all seems to be part of the script. I know my W does not really mean some of it, because shortly after she got mad and accused me of getting in touch with an old girlfriend (which I hadn't)

Just keep your focus on yourself.

Last edited by Thinker; 03/15/09 01:37 PM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2
M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08
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