I am in the minority of opinions when I say that many MLCers never come out of it. I have seen too many examples of people on this board that have walked off and left thier families, left everything, I watched my father do it, swear up and down that they did right, they are happy, blah blah blah. Fast forward to a couple of years and they are all alone. At that point it would seem a reasonable, or even not so reasonable person would say " I think I screwed up" People, I promise you, almost without exception, these people would rather live in lice than admit to you they did wrong. How can someone come out of MLC if they are not able to admit wrong? I don't think they can.