Snodderly.,, I was actually waiting for your post...you are so down to earth and always to dead on with what to do...'
I have gone extremely dark....I told my H not to contact me at all, of course he did the OMG....H picked up my son yesterday...I communicated through text...I am so much better when I don't talk or see him...a little angry at him still but I'll be fine... My D22 said he could come stay with her a few days and his friends mom says he can stay with them too....I do have wonderful friends in my life,,,I just have never been one to just "drop" my kids anywhere....It will all work out...I know, it's just hard...
And that mother ship....geez....when does it sink....for the most part I did leave him alone that's why I thought he could let me have a break and take s11 for the week...I should have known better...we don't hear from him at all...only son....H has tried to get D16 to go to lunch with him but she won't go...
Oh, In my rage the other day with him...I told him not to even think about bringing OW to my D's wedding....not only do I not want her there my D22 says absolutely not....I might run over her with YR's Bus Sry that was mean but really...I don't not want that ruining my D's day..she will tell him that...
So, yesterday I went and watched a basketball game with a male friend and then we got food and came here to my place and watched a movie....D16 came home and was ok with another male being here...it was an enjoyable evening....my s11 called, asked if I was home...he was with H....wanted me to go in his room and get a website he had written down....can't my H figure that out...so H probably thought I was sitting home...although I left yesterday while H was here picking up son....I also had an extra bag with me...
Thanks snodderly for keeping me together.....
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity