It's been a long time since you last posted to me so you'll have to forgive me if I haven't got the jist of your post. Yes, the sitch of K sunshine is different from mine and the way forward will be different, but I think I get her sentiments, that of a woman feeling all alone in an M and needing support from her man in times of crisis.
Last W and I stayed in and watched a move together, just like we used to. At the end we did talk some and she did let out some tears and let me know her fears for FIL and his upcoming cancer treatment. All I could do was comfort her and reassure her it was a battle that we would all have to face and fight together. Early this morning W woke me out of my sleep not for sex but just for me to hold her, I think she was looking for further reassurance from me.
So far this morning D7 and I have been to church and enjoyed a light lunch together, as soon as W gets in from her second job we will be out for the day, another family day.
Overall where does this leave us, not much different to where we were last week, cos I know W has a lot going on in her head and she does tend to ride this big emotional roller coaster. So for me, I will support her when she gets emotional but get on my bike and GAL when she goes crazy. (or do I still support when she goes crazy).