Originally Posted By: AFWAW

I guess the big difference is I am willing to work on this and she is not. Another thing, because she was so mean about it I felt less emotional. I don't feel like crying, moping, nothing. I just feel empty and betrayed. What a cold, hard woman. I don't know what the future holds for me and my daughter but I know if my wife won't accept my love and all I have to offer then I will find a woman who will. It's just amazing to me how she is letting her anger rule her life and giving up so much for it. Uggggghhhhhhhhh....


My sentiments exactly. I was just pondering this exact type view of my W and my sitch. I was looking in her eyes today and wondering where the sweet woman I married went. Only coldness, hardness, and bitterness. It is truly sad. It is sad they give up on us at the time when things could be better than ever. Keep your head up AFWAW. I empathize with you.


Me: 33
W: 26
Married: 5 yrs in July
T: 8.5 yrs
Kids: 0
Bomb: 2/4/09
D Filed (by her): 2/28/09